If you have been drawn here, you are probably in the throes of one of the most important decisions you may make - who do I choose to help me through a tragedy? As you explore this decision, and our particular suitability to be of service to you and your family, it appears essential that you first spend time quietly assessing your plight, including your needs, desires, fears, and apprehensions. Write them down, and think of the qualities you will require of your personal legal counsel. To perhaps help you with this very important exercise, we suggest you consider the following: