If you are on this page, you are likely searching for an attorney to assist with your divorce or other family-related issues. I will assume, and encourage, that you are shopping around for the best attorney in your area. Here is a guess at what you've seen so far: countless pages of "aggressive" family lawyers eager to "fight to get you what you deserve." Now, let me tell you the aggressive family lawyer strategy: "we will engage in petty behavior, pick endless fights with opposing counsel, get a bad reputation with the judge, destroy your relationship with your ex-partner and children, and, you guessed it, send you a high bill for all of the above."